Your Journey Back from Trichotillomania: It’s Not About Perfection

Too many people expect far too much of themselves in life, and this can create a tremendous amount of stress and pressure.

When it comes to your efforts to beat trichotillomania, this can be especially true.  Sure, it’s possible to stop pulling once and for all, and for those who can do that, it’s great.

But if you’re one of those for whom it’s not been a straight path – if find yourself moving “two steps forward and one step back”, that can be OK as well.

It’s like life itself; it’s not about what happens on a day-to-day basis.  If instead you’re willing to back up far enough to see the big picture, you’ll gain valuable perspective about how you’re really growing as a person.  That’s the best way to notice the upward momentum that undoubtedly characterizes your life.

It’s not about “perfection”, it’s about reaching your goal, however you do that…   And at whatever pace is “perfect” for you.


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How Long Does It REALLY Take to Cure Trichotillomania? The Shocking Truth.

For most, it’s only natural to assume that the longer you’ve had your problem (e.g. trichotillomania), the longer it has to take in therapy, etc., to fully cure.  But is this really the case?

The truth is, how long you’ve been struggling with trichotillomania, or how bad it’s been, has nothing at all to do with how long it has to take to get it handled once and for all.  Fact is, it’s entirely possible to resolve your challenges with trichotillomania in just hours – not days, weeks, months or longer.

But how is such a thing possible?

How Trichotillomania Often Starts

There was a time in your life when pulling your hair wouldn’t even have occurred to you.  Yet most of our clients can think back to a single moment when their problem with trichotillomania started.

  • You might have been in the back seat of the family car as a child during a long ride home.  Bored, you may have started to play with your hair – and one thing led to another.
  • You might have been in class, and during a moment of boredom, you may have noticed what looked like a classmate pulling his or hair.  Maybe you got curious to know what that felt like.  So you tried it and were intrigued by the sensation.  And you never stopped.
  • You might at some point have found yourself feeling particularly stressed out or frustrated.  Without paying attention to what you were doing, you might have tugged a little too hard on one or more of your hairs, eyebrows or eyelashes – and out it came.  Now, THAT got your attention.  And wasn’t it easier to switch your focus at that moment from what was so stressful, frustrating or anxiety-provoking to the relatively mindless experience of focusing on your hair instead?

Human Beings Learn Quickly

See, people can develop a challenge with trichotillomania for no better reason than they were in the wrong place at the wrong time.  Yet, virtually regardless of the specific context, notice this challenge seemed to show up in your life quickly!

So if you can learn to create trichotillomania quickly, why shouldn’t it be possible to unlearn it just a quickly? (We can’t think of a good reason why it shouldn’t.)

Curious to know how you can use this insight to help yourself? Check out this week’s video to learn more.


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Curing Trichotillomania: The Benefits of Thinking Small

To many, the prospect of finally taking on this monumental challenge called “trichotillomania” can seem overwhelming – even impossible, if you’ve struggled with it long enough.

But this is understandable, is it not?  The longer you’ve struggled with trichotillomania, and the more you’ve done to try to beat it without success, the more impossible the task comes to feel over time.

The good news is there is a way to chip away at the cement of that awful feeling. There IS a way for you to create a genuine glimmer of hope for yourself.

And you do that by first getting a handle on the pot.

The Power of Momentum

Never underestimate the power of momentum.  It’s part of the reason why so many folks are willing to pour so much renewed energy into taking on even lifelong challenges at the start of each New Year. It feels like we’ve been given permission to forget about the failures of our past and to start fresh once again.

Because we’re more optimistic about what’s possible for us if we keep at it, we’re more willing to do what it takes to get the ball rolling again – and to keep it rolling if at all possible.

Those Little Successes Add Up

So how do you create the courage to finally take on the mountain?

One way to do it is to start thinking small(er).

Begin to ask yourself how you could begin creating little victories for yourself in the direction of your desired change.  It’s like anything else in life – success builds upon success.

Taken together, these little successes could very well help you to create sufficient confidence to finally take on the ultimate challenge – to do whatever it takes to eliminate the scourge of trichotillomania from your life once and for all.

But how do you do this? Where do you start?

Check out this week’s video for more details, and some great examples of just how we’ve helped our clients do this.


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Having watched this video, what kinds of ideas have occurred to you so that you can begin creating this all-important momentum?

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Trichotillomania And How to Put Your Failures Behind You

Happy New Year to our many readers!  What a timely topic we have for you this week.

New Year, New Hope…  Right?

For most, the new year brings with it a sense of hope and possibility.  For many who suffer with trichotillomania, however, there may be nothing particularly exciting about the new year.  That’s because for some, there’s no reason think this year can be any different than last year – or the year before that, or the year before that.

Instead, many fully expect to continue struggling with trichotillomania.  Many have simply given up.

After all, why should anything change?  They’ve “already tried everything”.

I know we’ve made reference to this in some of our earlier videos, but I’ll repeat again here:

When it comes to trichotillomania, giving up all hope is truly the kiss of death.

For Auld Acquaintance Be Forgot…

Well, you might want to forget about that…  Forget about all the failures in your past.

Why? Because if you let your past dictate your future, your future could not possibly be any different than your past.

To the extent you allow past disappointments to influence your choices about what to try next (if anything), you rob yourself of what might have been some outstanding opportunities to experience your world in a whole new way.

Well, that’s all well and good.

But how do you actually go about doing that?  How does one actually go about putting their past behind them?

Is it even possible?

The good news is, yes is it – it’s absolutely possible.

What You Say DOES Matter

Ever heard someone say something like, “I don’t know how she does it… She just seems to be able to put all that stuff behind her.”

What that speaker doesn’t know is that she just told you how she – not the person she’s talking about – totally unconsciously! – mentally processes information such that she is able to move on from life’s inevitable disappointments.  It’s the speaker’s unconscious “mental recipe” for personal resilience.

You may actually do this in exactly the same way!  After all, you don’t hang on to every single disappointment you’ve ever had, do you?  Of course not.

Out with The Old And In with The New

The bottom line is, the past does not equal the future.

Whatever you tried in the past that didn’t work has nothing at all to do with what COULD be different for you in 2017.

But first, you have to let go of all the disappointments in your past that have stopped you from trying again.

This week’s video shows you exactly how to do this.


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Have you allowed past disappointments in your efforts to conquer your trichotillomania to discourage you from even trying again?  How well did this exercise work to help you let go of those disappointments?

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For more information about how we can assist you to eliminate trichotillomania as an issue in your life far more quickly and easily than you probably ever imagined possible, please visit our website and fill out a contact form.  You can also call our 24-hour toll-free voicemail messaging service at any time of day or night at (866) LIFE-NOW.  We’ll return your call at our very first opportunity.

Trichotillomania And The Power of Positive Thinking

So when it comes to your challenges with trichotillomania, what do you want?

Are you sure?

When it comes to solving your challenges with trichotillomania, you’ve very probably spent a lot of time thinking about how you’d like things to be different.

And you’ve undoubtedly made your very best effort to try find relief from trichotillomania, have you not?  Yet the months and years pass, and you still find yourself a slave to what may feel like compulsive hair-pulling.

That can only mean one thing… Whatever you’re doing to try to rein in your hair-pulling behavior – well-intended though it may be, it’s not working.  If it was, you’d be free of this by now.

Finding true and lasting relief from trichotillomania is possible. We do it all the time with our clients here at the Trichotillomania Relief Specialists. But it almost always requires professional assistance.

Meantime, there IS something you can do right now to begin turning the tide. You can even do it on your own. And that’s to change how you think about what you want when it comes to your challenges with trichotillomania.

As A Man Thinketh…

You’ve heard the saying, right?

“As a man thinketh, so is he.”

The Bible is right about so many things (well, everything!).  This is just another example.

This is just another way of saying “whereever we place the focus of our mind on a regular basis, more of that tends to show up in our world”.

Haven’t you found this to be true?

Quick – what’s the first thing that comes to mind when I ask you:  When it comes to your trichotillomania, what’s your greatest wish?

If you said something like, “I just want to be rid of my trichotillomania.”

Or, “I want to stop pulling.”

Or, “I don’t want to have to pull anymore, and I don’t even ever have to think about it anymore either.”

If you’re saying any of those things (a) that’s totally understandable, and (b) they’re also the exact wrong things you want to be saying to yourself right now.

Let me be clear.  There’s nothing wrong at all with what you want.  We’re totally on your side with this.

But you have to learn to say it in a way that really works for you, instead of holding you back.

Why?  Because your brain will give you whatever you ask for.  But you have to ask for what you want, not what you don’t want.

Curious to learn how to really do this right?  Watch this quick 8-minute video.

And have fun.  🙂


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Are we right?  Have you in fact been focusing on what you DON’T want, instead of what you DO want?  What do you plan to change now?

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For more information about how we can assist you to eliminate trichotillomania as an issue in your life far more quickly and easily than you probably ever imagined possible, please visit our website and fill out a contact form.  You can also call our 24-hour toll-free voicemail messaging service at any time of day or night at (866) LIFE-NOW.  We’ll return your call at our very first opportunity.

Why Trichotillomania Can’t – And Doesn’t – Define You

If you’re like us, you’ve done a lot of reading about trichotillomania, both online and off.

One of the most troublesome things we find ourselves running into far too often, particularly online, are expressions that sound a lot like a personal Declaration of Independence: “I’ve tried everything, and no matter how hard I try, I just can’t control this.  It’s time I just accepted this is who I am.”

Uh, oh.

Raising The White Flag

Of course, statements like this are totally understandable, are they not?  You tend to hear this from folks who’ve tried everything they know of to try to get a handle on their hair-pulling – sometimes for years – only to come up empty every time.  After awhile, that can really weigh on a person.  Sometimes it feels easier just to give up the fight and let nature take its course.

And you see, many of us think letting go of the struggle means finally permitting ourselves more allowance to just be “who we are” – as though who we are is a hair-puller.

Glei and I contend hair-pulling is something we DO – it’s not who we ARE.  There’s a huge difference.

In fact, after having been in this business for nigh on 20 years now, and having worked all this time with many hundreds of clients from around the world, we’ve come to believe that who we are as people is much, much more than ANYTHING we ever DO.

Keep in mind, we can change what we do – we can change our behaviors.  Changing who we are is not quite so easy.  And maybe there’s no need to do that anyway.

Curious to learn more about who you REALLY are as a person?…  Someone whose very being is SO much more than just a “hair-puller”?

Enjoy this week’s video.  🙂


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Have you found yourself the victim of this kind of thinking?  And what have you learned now that may help you see yourself as so much more than just a “hair-puller”?

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For more information about how we can assist you to eliminate trichotillomania as an issue in your life far more quickly and easily than you probably ever imagined possible, please visit our website and fill out a contact form.  You can also call our 24-hour toll-free voicemail messaging service at any time of day or night at (866) LIFE-NOW.  We’ll return your call at our very first opportunity.

Trichotillomania And School: How to Survive Your New School Year

Glei and I have been working with trichotillomania for many years now. In all that time, I cannot remember when we’ve heard from so many parents, so concerned about the impending school year, associated stress, and what they fear that may mean for an increase in their child’s pulling activity.

Timing Is Everything

In our opinion, this video could not be more timely. For many of you, your child is either back in school already, or about to be.

And for some reason, the majority of us assume stress simply HAS to be a part of a young person’s scholastic experience.

But does it?

You need to know that school-related stress is not inevitable. With some thoughtful planning, there’s actually quite a bit you can do to minimize your child’s experience of school-related stress. And that can make all the difference in the world, not only with regard to how much pulling (or how much LESS pulling!) your child does this year, but to his/her entire outlook on school and learning – now and into the future.

C.A.L.M. – Your Recipe for Better Stress Management

When we talk with the parents of our younger clients here at the Trichotillomania Relief Specialists, Glei and I like to offer the following acronym as a guide for how to minimize school-related stress. That is:

  • C. = Connect
  • A. = Assess
  • L. = Let Go
  • M. = Monitor

Curious to take a look at what we teach in this guide?  Curious to discover what you can do to help your child learn to stand on their own in school – and to do it in a relatively stress-free manner?

Check out this week’s video.  Then hit the “Reply” button below and let us know what you think!  🙂


Hit the “Reply” button below and let us know what you think!  

What is it like for your child when school resumes in the fall?  Does that usually mean a return to stress-related pulling?  Or has your child found a way to conquer this challenge?

As always, feel free to leave a comment at our Facebook Community Page, our growing YouTube Channel, or even right below.

Have questions about trichotillomania you’d like us to address in future blog posts?  Visit our Question and Answers Page here.

For more information about how we can assist you to eliminate trichotillomania as an issue in your life far more quickly and easily than you probably ever imagined possible, please visit our website and fill out a contact form.  You can also call our 24-hour toll-free voicemail messaging service at any time of day or night at (866) LIFE-NOW.  We’ll return your call at our very first opportunity.

Trichotillomania, And How to Deal with Awkward Questions

How do you respond when someone comments or asks you an awkward question about your hair?

Glei and I just finished up a Personal Breakthrough Session with Sophie, a young teen who used to constantly pull on her eyelashes, eyebrows and her scalp. We’re about 6 weeks into her 12-week program now, and she’s doing amazing! Sophie’s on a roll, and she’s very excited about her new hair growth, and her new sense of freedom and control.

Apparently, she’s not the only one who is noticing!  Seemingly out of nowhere, someone whom she didn’t yet know asked, “What happened to your hair?”  

Naturally, Sophie found herself totally taken aback by that question – and we imagine the same is true for many who suffer with trichotillomania, and for whom the damage may be at least somewhat apparent.

Preparedness Is Key

Ever found yourself in a situation like this?

Believe it or not, there are some excellent ways to deal with these kinds of questions.  The key is to consider what kinds of potentially uncomfortable questions or comments you’re likely to encounter at times, and to plan your responses to them in advance.

Ready to learn more?  Check out this week’s video.


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Have you found yourself in these kinds of unexpected situations?  How did you deal with it at the time?

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For more information about how we can assist you to eliminate trichotillomania as an issue in your life far more quickly and easily than you probably ever imagined possible, please visit our website and fill out a contact form.  You can also call our 24-hour toll-free voicemail messaging service at any time of day or night at (866) LIFE-NOW.  We’ll return your call at our very first opportunity.

Stubborn Trichotillomania? Here’s How to Shake Things Up Quickly

If you suffer with trichotillomania, you’ve probably noticed a tendency to pull your hair at predictable times and in predictable places.  For some, it’s so regular, you can set a clock to it.

What do you do about something like that?  How do you break free from a habitual form of pulling that’s been going on in the same way at the same times – maybe for years?

That’s what this week’s video is all about.

We The People

People are creatures of habit.  We tend to do the same things the same way, in the same order, day in and day out, week in and week out, month in and month out, and year after year.  These “programmed” sets of behaviors have become unconscious patterns after so much practice doing the same thing again and again.  Think of these as our unconscious mental “recipes” that inevitably lead to the same result each and every time – the result you don’t like called “pulling”.

But like any other recipe, if you change any part of it – any ingredient in it – even the order in which those ingredients are combined, you simply can’t get the same result the same way – it’s impossible.

Just Exchange The Salt And The Sugar

Let’s take an example.  Let’s say you have a recipe for a chocolate cake.  If you want to make the world’s best chocolate cake, simply find that particular recipe, and follow it to the letter.

So what’s in a recipe?  Well, the ingredients for sure.

But not just the ingredients.  If you want to make that world’s best chocolate cake just like the pros do, you have to know not only which ingredients to use, but how much of each ingredient to use, and in what order to use them.

Let’s say the recipe calls for a cup of sugar and just a tablespoon of salt.  What if all you did was simply switch out the amounts of sugar and salt, so that you used a cup of salt and a tablespoon of sugar?  What kind of cake do you think you’d end up with?

Surely not the kind you expected.  We all know it would probably taste awful, right?

Yet all we did was change just ONE THING in the entire recipe!  And by changing just one thing, it became simply impossible to get the same result later on.  Instead, you got something far different.

Same With Us!

And it works the same way for us.  Change any part of how you operate in these relatively predictable times and places in which you normally tend to pull, and you’ll find it far easier to avoid pulling this time. The interest may even disappear altogether.

In this week’s video, we’ll share some specific examples of what you can begin doing differently so you can help yourself break free from those old, outdated patterns of trichotillomania-related pulling.

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Where and when have you been most commonly challenged with the tendency to pull?  And what ideas came to mind while watching this video about what you can begin doing differently from now on?

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Have questions about trichotillomania you’d like us to address in future blog posts?  Visit our Question and Answers Page here.

For more information about how we can assist you to eliminate trichotillomania as an issue in your life far more quickly and easily than you probably ever imagined possible, please visit our website and fill out a contact form.  You can also call our 24-hour toll-free voicemail messaging service at any time of day or night at (866) LIFE-NOW.  We’ll return your call at our very first opportunity.

 

Trichotillomania Relief Specialists: A Truly Revolutionary Approach?

Here at the Trichotillomania Relief Specialists, we’ve had the gall to make some pretty bold claims.

One of those claims is that 4 out of 5 of our clients find they are able to stop pulling after just their very first session with us. Even more impressive, 100% of our clients – there are no exceptions – discover a level of control over their trichotillomania-related pulling activity most never knew they had before… This, also after just their very first session with us.

If It Sounds Too Good to Be True…

If you’re one of those individuals who have suffered with trichotillomania for any length of time, and especially if by now you really have done your level best to try to find an answer to your problem, we understand how the above claims could cause you to (at the very least) raise an eyebrow.

After all, you know what they say… “If it sounds too good to be true, it probably is.”

Well, believe it or not, Glei and I get that. We even (generally) agree with it.

But there’s the rare exception, and this is one of them. And that’s good news for you, the trichotillomania sufferer (or parent of loved one of a trichotillomania sufferer). Because in this case, what we claim to be the case certainly is.

But you’re probably wondering how that could be.

How could anything be as straightforward as we make it sound?

Well first of all, we didn’t say the journey is necessarily easy or straightforward for all our clients. The truth is, it’s not easy for everyone.

But the journey could be straightforward, as indeed it is for a great many of our clients. Should the time come when you decide to join us for one of our revolutionary Accelerated Personal Breakthrough Coaching™ Programs, you’ll surely learn how such a thing could be – that this thing you’ve been struggling against, maybe for years, is in fact most easily conquered without a struggle.

You’ll learn what it takes to make your journey to trich-freedom every bit as simple and straightforward as it could – and should – be.

The Nature of A Quantum Leap

Think of the greatest social, business or technological disrupters of our time. The late Steve Jobs (Apple), Jeff Bezos (Amazon), Elon Musk (Tesla, SpaceX, Solar City and PayPal) are just a few well-known examples of people who broke the mold. And they did it not by building directly on the work of those before them, but instead by thinking totally outside the box.

And that’s the key… That’s the key to creating a breakthrough that seemingly occurs overnight, versus the slow, plodding evolution of most companies, and even entire industries around the world.

You see, when you start with a blank page, you’re free to create whatever you want, however you want it.

And that’s just what we did here at the Trichotillomania Relief Specialists. Glei and I started this process nearly 20 years ago, and we continue to improve and evolve our approach even to this day.

Curious to learn more about our journey? We’d love to share it with you. Click on the video above, and we’ll fill you in on all the juicy details.

As always, feel free to leave a comment at our Facebook Community Page, our growing YouTube Channel, or even right below to let us know what you think, OK?

Have questions about trichotillomania you’d like us to address in future blog posts?  Visit our Question and Answers Page here.

For more information about how we can assist you to eliminate trichotillomania as an issue in your life far more quickly and easily than you probably ever imagined possible, please visit our website and fill out a contact form.  You can also call our 24-hour toll-free voicemail messaging service at any time of day or night at (866) LIFE-NOW.  We’ll return your call at our very first opportunity.